A couple of weeks ago Sheryl Sandberg went to the top of the Memes with her call to stop overworking ourselves for long hours. Since than, I’ve seen many other people talk about the fact that working into the night is a waste of resources and we should strive for better work-life balance.
I want to make the opposite point.
Well… not exactly. I do think we should have a good work/life balance. I just think that in many cases we should strive to make sure that our work is our life, or better say – eliminate the word work from our vocabulary.
I’m an entrepreneur. I’m working now on another startup. I spend long hours on my startup. I find myself many times coding well into the night. But no. I don’t work hard. My startup is part of my life the same way my friends and family are. My startup defines me the same as my hobbies are.
Many times I look at some of my friends who are working 8 to 5 and really feel sorry for them. Yes, I spend many more hours “working” than they are, but for me this is not work. I don’t look at the clock to see how many more hours I need to do this. Don’t get me wrong. There are many times that I prefer to be diving in some exotic place or just laying on the beach. But I’m not longing for my work day to end. I love what I do.
When I think about my last startup, some of my favorite times I remember were the long nights, coding with my co-founder. The thrill of building something cool. The notion that everything is possible. It’s like going to the gym – you like the pain that comes from lifting heavy weight.
Instead of trying to lower the amount of hours we spend on work, maybe we need to strive to make work not feel like work.
UPDATE: I just want to clarify one thing: I’m single and I don’t have kids. I fully understand that when you have family, what I’m wrote here simply doesn’t apply. When you have kids, you need to spend time with them. Period. But until than…





